Kids and Tech: What LookWhatMomFound Moms Are Saying in 2025
In 2025, parenting and technology are more connected than ever before. From digital classrooms to bedtime YouTube rituals, today’s kids are growing up immersed in a world their parents could only imagine a decade ago. But with every new screen, app, and gadget comes a bigger question: how much is too much—and how can parents keep tech from taking over childhood?
At LookWhatMomFound, we’ve been listening. Our community of moms from across the country has shared their stories, strategies, and even their fears about raising children in a tech-first world. The result? A refreshingly honest look at how modern families are navigating the digital landscape—together.
Here’s what they’re saying.
1. “It’s Not About Avoiding Tech—It’s About Managing It”
One of the most common themes among LookWhatMomFound moms is the idea that technology is not the enemy—it’s how it’s used that matters.
“I stopped trying to block my kids from tech. Instead, we created family rules—no phones during meals, no YouTube after 8 PM, and a list of ‘approved’ apps,” says Amanda, a mom of two from Ohio.
Parents are learning to set boundaries without cutting their kids off from the digital world. They see tech as a tool, not a babysitter—and they’re making intentional decisions about how and when it’s introduced.
2. Educational Apps Are In—Mindless Scrolling Is Out
Many moms in the LookWhatMomFound community are turning to educational platforms to give tech time a purpose. Reading apps, coding games, language learning tools, and digital art platforms have replaced endless video watching for some families.
“If they’re going to have screen time, it better help them learn or create something,” says Jasmine, a mother of three in Texas. “We’ve replaced cartoons with interactive learning games and I’ve seen a major difference in focus and vocabulary.”
That said, these moms also understand the importance of balance. Even educational tech isn’t a substitute for active play, conversation, or outdoor time.
3. Screen Time Limits Are Back—and Getting Smarter
In 2025, screen time is no longer a hard number—it’s a combination of duration, content, and context. Moms are moving away from the old “two-hour rule” and instead using smart devices to help set daily digital goals.
Some are using built-in screen management apps to monitor usage across devices. Others have established systems where screen time must be “earned” through reading, chores, or creative play.
“My daughter gets 30 minutes of screen time for every 60 minutes she spends doing something screen-free—reading, crafting, playing outside,” shares Denise, a mom from New Jersey. “It gives her agency and keeps tech from being the default.”
4. The YouTube Debate: Safe or Slippery Slope?
YouTube continues to be a major point of discussion. While some moms praise its creative content and educational videos, others express concern over what their children can stumble upon—even with filters on.
“We thought YouTube Kids would solve everything, but we still found odd content slipping through,” says Rachel, a mom from Chicago. “Now we only allow co-watching, or we curate specific channels ourselves.”
There’s growing agreement that passive viewing isn’t enough. Moms want to be part of the tech experience—to watch together, ask questions, and model digital discernment.
5. “Tech Tantrums” Are a Real Issue—And Moms Are Fighting Back
One of the most relatable struggles shared by moms is dealing with kids’ emotional reactions when tech time ends. These “tech tantrums” can be intense and exhausting.
To fight this, moms are developing clear routines. Timers, countdown warnings, and transitional activities—like stretching or snack breaks—help kids prepare for the shift.
“We stopped cold-turkey tech shutoffs,” says Layla, a mom of twins in California. “Now we do a five-minute warning and ask our kids to pause what they’re watching instead of ripping the device away. It made a huge difference.”
The focus is on teaching self-regulation—not just policing screen habits.
6. Moms Are Watching Their Own Tech Habits, Too
It’s not just about the kids. Moms in the LookWhatMomFound community are also reflecting on how their own screen habits influence their parenting.
“My son once said, ‘You’re always on your phone.’ That hit me hard,” admits Kristina from North Carolina. “Now, I make a point to put it away during meals and bedtime.”
Digital role modeling is becoming just as important as digital rules. Kids are observant, and many moms are realizing that balance starts with them.
7. Some Families Are Going Tech-Free on Weekends
A surprising number of moms are testing “tech sabbaths”—full or partial screen-free days on weekends. These breaks give families time to reconnect, explore nature, or simply slow down.
“Every Sunday we unplug. No tablets, no phones unless it’s a call to Grandma,” says Naomi from Oregon. “It’s our reset button.”
The result? More board games, bike rides, baking, and storytelling. It’s not always easy, especially at first, but many say the benefits are worth it.
8. Social Media Awareness Starts Early
With tweens getting smartphones earlier than ever, moms are now introducing social media education as early as age eight. That includes talking about:
- Online safety and privacy
- What it means to be a responsible digital citizen
- The difference between real life and online appearances
- How to spot inappropriate or manipulative content
“We don’t allow Instagram or TikTok yet, but we still talk about them,” shares Simone, a mom of a 9-year-old. “I want her to understand it before she uses it.”
Preparation over prohibition—that’s the strategy many moms are adopting.
9. Tech Is Also a Lifeline for Moms
While there’s a lot of focus on how kids interact with tech, many moms in our community say that technology is also a lifeline for them—especially those raising children in isolation, navigating postpartum challenges, or working from home.
Online mom groups, parenting podcasts, meditation apps, and content like LookWhatMomFound itself have helped them stay grounded and supported.
“I may be physically alone some days, but thanks to my online community, I never feel alone,” says Brooke from Michigan.
10. Finding Balance—Not Perfection
Ultimately, what LookWhatMomFound moms agree on is this: the goal isn’t to completely shield kids from technology, nor to hand over control entirely. The goal is balance.
Balance means:
- Choosing quality over quantity
- Creating open conversations instead of rigid rules
- Using tech as a tool, not a default
- Prioritizing relationships over reactions
“We’re not perfect, but we’re intentional,” says Melissa, a mom of three. “That’s what matters most.”
Final Thoughts
In 2025, technology is a part of family life whether we like it or not. But moms across the LookWhatMomFound community are proving that it doesn’t have to replace connection, creativity, or boundaries. With intention, open dialogue, and real awareness, families can use tech to grow—not just scroll.
These real-life insights remind us that no algorithm can replace parenting wisdom, and no trending app will ever outshine the value of shared, screen-free moments.
So the next time you worry about how much screen time your child is getting, remember—you’re not alone. And sometimes, balance begins with just asking the right questions.
